How To Attract Hot Women

Lets face it, when it comes to asking a girl to be your girlfriend, it is always a hard thing to do, no matter how much experience you might have. The guys that seem to have no problem asking still get a little nervous when it comes to talking to a hot chick. So, whether you’re a pro or not, read on for some good tips and ideas on lines to ask a girl to be your girlfriend.

Being more specific when asking her out is a big plus. What I mean is that you dont want to be too vague, like saying something to the effect of “do you wanna go out?”. You want to say something like, “Hey, how about we go and get some chinese food?” And if it turns out that she doesnt like chinese food, you could always ask her out for ice cream, or something else everyone likes. I dont think I have ever met a single girl that didnt like ice cream.

And what ever you do, dont use cheesy pick up lines, you know the ones that I mean. I would say the only time you would ever want to use them is to maybe break the ice, but you better make sure that she knows you’re joking, because no women in todays world would take a pickup line seriously. It can be difficult to know which lines to ask a girl to be your girlfriend.

You will also want to be careful with what words you use. Women nowadays get scared with words like “dating” so you should use a more casual word, like “hanging out”. An example would be, “want to hang out at a club sometime?”, instead of asking her out on a “date”. You can eventually use that word, but to start off, you dont want to scare her away. And always make sure you ask to hang out at a public place, so she will feel safe and ok saying yes.

These tips should get you started as far as lines to ask a girl to be your girlfriend go. When it comes to attracting hot women though, you need all the help you can get, which is why I recommend this guide. It will not only give you all the lines you need, it will give you a lot more when it comes to picking up any woman you want. Check it out and discover the best lines to ask a girl to be your girlfriend.

Ok, so you had a pretty good night, and you were able to be smooth enough to get the girls number. Now comes the dreaded day after. The phone call. How do you talk to women on the phone so that they will want to see you again is one of the trickiest and complex parts in attracting women. It is crucial that you dont mess up on the phone call, because if you do, you might as well toss that phone number aside. Hopefully, with a little help, you can avoid the big mistakes and land a date.

It will be important to remember how you were acting the night you met her. If you were acting like a goof, chances are she gave you her number because you were a goof. So dont be all serious on the phone call. Try to act similar to how you were acting when you got her number.

Speaking of being a goof, humor can go along way with women. The tricky part with being funny with women is you have to focus your humor on her, in a good way. Get her to start talking about her self, then come up with witty remarks, something that will make her chuckle. And try to throw in some stuff from the night you two met. And whatever you do, do not make things up or lie about anything. This will come back to bite you in the butt, trust me. The truth always has a way of coming out. That is probably the biggest mistake guys make when it comes to how do you talk to women on the phone.

And you dont want to be funny the whole time. While you definitely want to make her laugh, you will also want to show her another side of you, that you are more then just a joker. And as always, try to talk about her as much as possible, and direct the conversation back to her as much as you can. Women love talking about themselves. Its a good trick when it comes to how to attract hot women.

Remember, when it comes to talking with women on the phone, they cant see you, obviously. So you need to make sure you do the best you can when it comes to making her feel your smile. Studies have shown that people can tell when you are smiling on the other line. So make sure you are smiling and happy, because she will be able to tell.

For more sound advice on how to talk to women on the phone, check out this site. It not only covers what you should talk about, but it also gives you a bunch of different advice on how to attract women in many different ways. Its definitely worth a look. Hope this has help answer your questions on how do you talk to women on the phone.

For this example I’m going to use women at a bar. I will be going into lots of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for now, we’ll stick with this.

(Note: In fact, I even recommend you try my top places for picking up that are not bars – they are WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar and you’ll see a massive leap in your success rates with women.)

As you know, women don’t usually go to bars on their own. They go in groups.

Approaching GROUPS of women can be extremely daunting and if you don’t know what you’re doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves they can rip you apart. I’ve seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even drinks poured over them.

But if you do the approach RIGHT, then your success with a group of women can usually yield great results.

Whenever I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys looking at me as though I’m from another planet. I realize that lots of guys probably don’t have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they don’t know. Don’t worry, this can be easily solved. I’ll give you some simple tips here.

SIDE NOTE: If you have a major confidence problem then don’t worry, I have an advanced 155-page E-book called HypnoDate which almost exclusively goes into increasing your confidence with women – and it works through the power of self-reprogramming so it doesn’t matter how shy you are, this thing WILL work for you. It’s a bonus product in my site member’s area that comes with my book at no extra charge.

INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL

Step 1. Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a woman’s eye, smile at her – more often than not, she’ll smile back. To start with you can do this just with shop employees. Even if they don’t WANT to smile, they probably will. Good practice. And you might even brighten a few women’s lives a little.

Step 2. Once you’ve gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could move onto other women in the mall. I’m not suggesting big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of women will smile back at you.

Step 3. Here’s where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help and practice and repetition will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a smile to women (and men if you like) as you walk around the mall. It will feel HORRIBLE at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or two, it’ll seem easy.

After you’ve smiled and said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel good (as long as you don’t quit on your first negative response – this will happen and will happen when you’re approaching women to pick them up – you HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with women).

One of my male friends did the “smile at girls in the mall” technique and he actually ended up meeting the girl of his dreams and is still with her 3 years later – how’s that for effective!

There are loads of other techniques you can do to build your confidence, most not quite as scary as the mall one. I go into others within my book…

Right, let’s assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to approach women you don’t know in a bar (Again, I don’t just go into bar pickups in my book, in fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar – I think it’s everyday places where you’re not competing with other single guys).

Firstly, let’s suppose two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’ one and one is the hot one (the one you like the looks of and would like to get to know more).

You see the girls. Go up to them and talk to them NOW! Don’t waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Some people call this the 3 second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.

If you see her and like her, it’s best not to think too much about the approach, or you’re more likely to work yourself into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you’ll just pussy out altogether!
(Don’t worry I’ll tell you WHAT to say when you get there in a future lesson). So within 3 seconds, go TALK to her!

ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. !!!NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!!

If you go up to the group at the bar and approach from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive – for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side…

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Body language is VERY important. According to studies carried out over 50% of your communication comes from your body language – what you DON’T say and less then 8% of your communication comes from what you DO say.

What does this mean to you?

It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say things, and HOW you stand and HOW you act than it is to WHAT you say (at least initially).

You see, you could have the BEST game in the world and be able to really get any woman to like you loads, for example online, but if you used those same successful techniques in the real world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked eye contact etc – You would simply CRASH and BURN.

Honestly, body language is SOOOO important in attracting women. Later in the course we’ll go into how you can use the female’s body language to READ her mind and know what she’s thinking. This article is about YOUR body language.

Ok… So, I’ll cover the basics as the advanced stuff is beyond the scope of this article (if you want more advanced detail concerning body language you can check out my site: guygetsgirl.com).

Body language basics:

1. Smile

You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that you are a friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick as possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time. You also need to let her know that you are confident and comfortable around women. A big and genuine smile is the best way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen that you can tell is about to give you the “dead eye”, give her a big smile. Practice smiling at random people. You’ll be surprised by how many people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling WORKS. Just don’t make it a cheesy, fake smile

2. Eye contact

As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest – or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who drool over her. If anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at her chest – she’ll wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and she’ll seek your attention and subconsciously TRY to get you to look!

When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it can be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact with her around 70% of the time you are talking, this should be comfortable for most women. Don’t stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can make serious connections within people. They say the eyes are a window to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that. There are even speed dating type events being run that involve just staring into each others eyes – and from what I hear, they are pretty successful.

Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation time. Be natural.

3. Upright posture

Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do prefer men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors like Pitt, Cruise etc. They all have good posture. It says to a woman you are confident, healthy, and strong (at least in mind). It’s just generally more attractive and says lots about who you are. Plus it’s good for your back and will help strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.

Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.

4. Gesticulate with open palms

You will not hear this tip anywhere else (or if you do, it was almost certainly copied from this course).

I’ve gone into in depth studies of body language and this one is a good one to use in MANY circumstances – I’ve adapted it here after solid testing to picking up women – however, some people suggest that when combined with a few other verbal and non-verbal techniques it can even give you a 50/50 chance of getting out of speeding fines!

Anyway, basically, when you are talking to a woman and trying to make a point (that puts you in a positive light) or defend yourself (for example, a girl suggests you might be a player) you talk and using your hands you have open palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your body with your palms facing the sky and smile as you talk.

It works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being honest and telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to trust you, making her think you are being straight with her, is important.

This open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a smile to work effectively.

Those are the basics of body language, if you’d like to learn more visit Tiffany Taylor’s site by clicking here

ALWAYS look your best.  I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you’d be surprised by how many men don’t understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it’s become a bit of a cliché because it’s true — first impressions really do count.

Here are some figures to consider from my studies.

If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc).

If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions of you were bad.

It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you’re on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success – no helicopters for you.

Honestly, I can’t stress this enough — always try to look your best.

Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions.

Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.

Remember these 5 S’s and always take care of them before you go out.

Why are shoes my number 5 S?

Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and hence your appearance.  Make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable.

What you wear is very important.  I could try to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed. 

Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men’s magazine’s and imitate the styles you see there — most women don’t really care what labels you are wearing as long as you look good so you don’t have to spend the Earth on clothing. 

Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within days.

Make sure you smell good.  Again this is extremely important.  Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good – you feel an instant attraction even though you don’t know her – well, that’s how women feel too. 

Wear a good-quality cologne, but don’t spray too much. 

One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists — maximum.  You don’t want to smell too overpowering. 

I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called JPG love juice because women love it) if they don’t sell it where you are try to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!

And here’s a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word! And NO rejection either. You won’t find this anywhere else either. What you need to do is…